College Girls: Don’t Fall for a Player!

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When you are in college, you are probably faced with the decision to date someone. Dating is something that can be pretty hard. Once you’ve met someone that you like though, it can be very easy to get caught up in the moment and want to be with someone for the long haul. He might be perfect in every way, he knows what to say, what to wear, and you want him all to yourself. But, you need to be wary of a guy like that, how do you know that he isn’t just a player, looking to “get some”? Sure, it might a damper on your romantic thoughts, but you don’t want to be crushed by a guy because he is a player. Here are some signs that the guy you might be crushing on is a player.

1. He has a lot of girl friends. It’s fine for a guy to have girls that are friends. Don’t you have guy friends? But, when he’s got so many girl friends that they seem to completely overshadow your relationship with him, you need to take a step back and evaluate.

2. He’s different with his friends. Sure, everyone acts differently when they are with their friends, but if your guy is completely opposite, you need to understand why.

3. He’s very cocky. It’s fine for a guy to be comfortable with who he is, but many players are extremely confident, it’s sign he’s a player.

4. He doesn’t ask you about your life. Many players don’t seem to care about anyone other than themselves. If your guy isn’t asking about you, but is more interested in making out―you’ve got a problem.

5. He texts you at all hours of the night. Sure, it might be cute to get a morning text from him, but if you are getting texts at 3 or 4 in the morning, chances are he’s out doing something. Ask him why he needs to text you at those crazy hours in the night.

If the guy that you like has these qualities, drop him like he’s hot! It’s better to get out of a relationship now rather than “waiting it out”. It’s only going to break your heart when he decides that he’s on to something new. Arm yourself with this knowledge and find a guy that isn’t a player and is a great guy.

 

About the Author
Neltje Anny is a writer for MyCollegesandCareers.com. My Colleges and Careers is a great site for you if you are interested in getting enrolled in one of the many online MBA programs.

 

Love: Do You Believe In the Soul Mate?

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The soul mate is said to be a person who is meant to be with another person. Their souls are somehow connected and fate has it that these two people are destined to be together. Sometimes these soul mates are not aware of who their mates are, so they go through life getting into other relationships thinking that they are happy. It is said that no relationship that is not with one’s soul mate will last. Even if it does survive for a long time, there will always be a longing for something more. This longing for something more is simply a long for the person that is meant to be with someone.

Not everyone believes in the idea of soul mates. However, psychics are rumored to have the ability to be able to get in touch with another person’s soul mate. If the concept of the soul mate were not believable, there would not be this many people practicing the art of keeping in touch with them. There has to be some kind of truth to the theory, and perhaps this truth can be tested and found in a clairvoyant fashion.

Different Psychic Connections

The psychic can make a connection with a person’s soul mate in several different ways. One way is by first making a connection with that person. Every human being possesses an energy that surrounds him or her. Psychics are able to use this energy to find out detailed information about who that person is. If the energy is strong enough the psychic may also be able to make a connection with the soul mate and pick up various descriptive information about who he or she is. He or she may be able to see the color of his eyes, how the two people will meet, or even if they are already together.

Medium readings are another way that a psychic could be able to find information on a person’s soul mate. Medium psychics are people who can communicate with the spirits. They have certain abilities that allow them to enter another dimension and see things that the average eye can not see. Some mediums are able to look into the future. A psychic of this type could be utilized to find out if a person will meet his or her soul mate. Spirits of lost relatives may also have this information for the seeker.

Finally a tarot reading may give a clear presentation of loves to come. Tarot reading is the process of using a deck of special cards to give information about a person’s love life, fortune, fame, and lifeline. Only certain psychics have the ability to read these special cards.

There are varying views on whether the soul mate exists and multiple ways of finding out whether there is any validity to the theory. Perhaps a person who does not fully believe should have a meeting with a person with these special abilities and see what the two of them can come up with.

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Accept the Situation: Advice for Moving On

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This article is specifically made for dealing with a breakup and moving on, but actually fits most of the other moving on situations. I’ve searched the web and read up on all the advice I could find for these situations. In this article I’ve gathered what I think are the best and most influential ones.

Accept the Situation

All these kinds of emotional situations start with acceptance. Think through what’s happened and try to let it go. Now is the time to occupy your mind with this, as you no longer will again.

Think Fresh

Try to empty your head of your ex girl- or boyfriend. You want to try to not think of this any more, but something completely different. Talk to someone, take a walk, or start planning the future are all good tips.

New Activities

Next up is finding some new activities. Do you have any hobbies you can spend some time with? Maybe get a new hobby? Go out running or go to the gym? There are plenty of things you can do. Be creative

Avoid

Avoid your ex at all cost. You might even want to consider deleting everything that reminds you of your ex. Maybe you have some old pictures or letters? Throw them away.

Famous Sayings and Quotes

This will probably sound silly, but reading up on some good quotes about moving on is a good way to deal with the situation. Hell, even reading some 21st birthday quotes for the humor might even be beneficial.

Stay away from drugs and alcohol. These might initially get you into a good mood, but they might also do the opposite. We advice to stay away from such substances at all cost as the situation can get much worse.

This process might seem like it never will end, but trust me it will. Within a couple of weeks, maybe even a day or two, you might start seeing the world different and with a fresh perspective.

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