Use A Matchmaking LA Service To Find A Companion

Use A Matchmaking LA Website

Traveling to different places in search of a mate takes time and commitment. When males are younger, they can afford to spend time going to bars and clubs to meet girls, but when they get older, they no longer have time for this. Especially since bars and clubs are not the ideal places for a successful man to meet a good mate. Men living in Los Angeles have a vast array of good mates to choose from, but these women can be hard to find. Men in LA can simplify their search for good women by going to the matchmaking LA website http://beyerandcompany.com. This website is run by April Beyer, and it is setup to match successful men with beautiful and intelligent women.

Meet the Perfect Match

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Men in LA, often times have trouble with women because they do not choose women that are compatible with their personalities. Contrary to popular belief, opposites are not supposed to be together, even if they do attract. The excitement people get when they are dating somebody completely different from them, and doing things they would never do by themselves, quickly evaporates, and turns into heartache as the relationship ages. On a matchmaking LA website, men are matched only with women that fit their personalities, and meet their criteria for the perfect mates.

Meet the Perfect Match in Secret

There is nothing wrong with using a matchmaking LA website to find a companion, but just in case anybody does not want it known that they are using a dating service to meet a woman, all matchmaking is done in private, and records are kept confidential. This leaves a man free to make up any story he wants to explain how he met his beautiful companion. However a man chooses to explain how he met his mate, the only thing that matters is that he was able to meet her

Ladies: Is Love Really All You Need To Get Hitched?

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Come on, I know what you’re thinking. Most romantics would agree with the title. All you need is love. A lot of women believe this is the only reason to get married. It’s so easy to say, but when it comes down to it, is it really true? After all, times are different now. Back then marriage was about stability, a promised future, and certain social status. Today, you can marry any man you want and all you need is two witnesses and to be happy with his, um, assets. Before you make the plunge, consider the following points:

• The first thing we have to check out is how the two of you interact during a problem or crisis. Can the two of you really handle one another or do you find someone pulling more weight than the other? I’ve seen couples go both ways, but no matter what reactions they had there was a hidden balance. Balance being they were able to work with each other, not against one another. A husband should be like a secretary, if you call in for a week they should be able to take over right away and pick up your slack with ease. Teamwork is important. You can’t be a one woman team, if you want to be, go ahead and enjoy being single until you’re ready.

• A lot of people don’t admit it, but having security really is a huge part in a couple’s relationship. You might be finishing up a college degree while he stays at home and plays Call of Duty on his Xbox. Don’t get me wrong, a man having gaming habits is a nice way to receive some space, but if this is all he does, is it worth it? A man has to have a job or some kind of dream of becoming more. You know the women that stay with the starving and struggling artist, it’s because they truly believe he will make it big someday, no matter how long it takes. If that’s not love, I don’t know what is. Bottom line, ensure there is ambition within him or else you’ll be wondering why you never questioned it sooner.

• The biggest and most common question is the trust you hold within each other. You can love someone till the end of time, but if you’re torturing yourself day after day wondering if he’s seeing someone on the side based on his past, it’s not going to work. I say this because I care. Women are sympathetic, they want to be the ones to change their ways, but we have to accept the fact that sometimes it is not an option. Do not, I repeat, do not torture yourself if you question his intentions. You do not want to waste your time with someone who doesn’t care about you. By the time it’s over, you could have been happily married to some other guy for years. Don’t do it. Follow and trust your instincts on this.

Don’t get me wrong, loving someone is half the battle, but it cannot be the only thing you contemplate before making a life-long commitment. If you’ve honestly considered all of these ideas and still have some positive thoughts about your man, you have my personal blessing to get hitched. If later down the road you realize you’d made a horrible mistake, no big deal. You can always get your ring appraised and find out how much your diamond worth is and resell it.

Fran Delaney writes on love, relationships and marriage from her hometown of Los Angeles, CA.

Cheap First-Date Ideas

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When considering going on a date with someone for the first time, dinner and the movies is a safe choice. While this is a nice idea, it can become costly due to the rising cost for movies and depending on the restaurant. Not only can this date be expensive, it can also be very predictable. Getting some inspiration for first date ideas can help you stand out to your date and make the day or night one to remember. In order to choose the perfect location or activity, it is important that you take into consideration the interests and personality of your date.

Outdoor activities are a great idea for a date if you and your date enjoy being active. A nice thing about these kinds of dates is that they are often very affordable and occasionally free. Taking a scenic hike up a mountain or by a lake can make a memorable date that is very romantic. Even a nice bike ride can make a wonderful date and be very inexpensive. Instead of thinking that you need to spend a lot of money for a date to be enjoyable, you can head outdoors and have a great time.

Many cities host free concerts and movies at the park during the warm summer months. Taking advantage of these free activities can help you and your date have a memorable time. Checking out your city’s calendar and seeing what events are coming up can help you plan the perfect date that is sure to be remembered for a long time to come. Even local museums are often free, allowing you impress your date with some culture and art without spending a dime. Following this kind of date with a nice meal is a smart way to impress your date.

Finding discounts on fun activities in your city can help you host a great date with a new special someone. Ice skating rinks often having discounts during certain times or days of the week, allowing you to snag a great deal. Movies also hold special discounts for matinee showings, making it very affordable to take your date out to the movies. Taking the time to check out events and restaurants that are discounted in your city and nearby will help you find great ideas to surprise your date with.

Taking a special somebody on a date doesn’t need to leave you broke at the end. While it is important to be thoughtful with choosing the location and activity, you can often find great deals or even go for free on a date. It is important to consider the interests of your date, as some people love being outdoors and others love relaxing with a glass of wine. Checking out the options in your local area will help you determine what kind of date would be the best fit for your date. Remaining patient to consider any discounts on local activities and free museums or even hikes can be a great way to set up a memorable date.

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Best Places to Visit on Singles Holidays

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With the freedom, excitement and opportunities that come with singles holidays, it’s no wonder that the choice to travel alone is becoming more and more popular amongst travelers.

For some, experiencing the world on your own is a daunting thought, but with a chance to have the security of a group and the independence to do what you like, who would want to travel any other way?

Traveling on your own is a great way to meet new people, face unique challenges and most importantly get away from all the hustle and bustle of your regular routine. Specialist travel companies offer group discount too, which means you won’t miss out on great deals by traveling alone.

There’s plenty of exciting singles trips to choose from, but with America’s diversity and wide range of cultures you’ll feel like you’re experiencing lots of journeys in one. Ride thrilling roller-coaster rides at Walt Disney World in Florida, or zip line in the cloud forest of Monteverde, in Costa Rica. There’s a whole range of USA activity holidays waiting to be discovered and no two experiences are ever the same.

Can’t decide where to go first? Here’s a few of the best destinations for singles holidays below.

Los Angeles

Witness the enticing illuminations of the LA strip, the stunning views of Venice beach and take spectacular walks down the Hollywood Walk of Fame, the fun in Los Angeles never stops. Here you’ll have the chance to experience the famous Hollywood Boulevard with an unlimited array of shopping and sightseeing to enjoy with your new found friends.

Be in your element with your very own tour of Tinseltown and experience a unique culture without the need to learn the language. You do however, with all destinations, need to make sure the travel company you’re touring with is suited to the single traveler and possesses the knowledge and dedication to make your trip unforgettable.

Get ready to discover the adventurous spirit you were blessed with in the City of Angels.

San Francisco

Known for the great red-orange length of its iconic golden gate bridge, San Francisco is an eclectic mix of breath-taking sights, exciting activities and delicious cuisine to sink your teeth into.

Hang out with your tour group, or explore on your own whenever you feel like it as you experience the thrill of historic cable cars, the unique culture of Chinatown and not forgetting a ride on the waves with the city’s vibrant surfing community.

If you enjoy a bit of history, the northern waterfront area of San Francisco is the place to visit. Stroll along Fisherman’s Wharf for a taste of fine quality seafood, a spot of fishing and an unforgettable boat trip to the island of Alcatraz. Then as the sun sets, enjoy a taste of San Francisco’s exciting nightlife with your new found friends.

Leave your heart in San Francisco and discover a memorable trip you’ll want to experience again and again.

New York

A trip to New York takes in everything from soaring skyscrapers and finest multicultural cuisines, to illuminous Broadway theatre and one of the most iconic symbols in the world – The Statue of Liberty.

The big apple has plenty to offer for enthusiastic travelers with rich cultured sightseeing and hundreds of mini experiences to enjoy with your traveling friends like theater, art, fashion and music. You and you’re tour group will never go hungry for things to see and do and if you’re want a bit of ‘me’ time, grab a coffee and take a pew under the tranquil trees of central park.

Whether you choose to be left alone, or embrace the opportunity to interact and meet with new people, singles holidays are an amazing way to experience the world.

My names Chris, and I’ve been traveling the globe for 18 months. I love to share my stories and give tips to those thinking of beginning their travels around the world.

Match.com to Screen For Sex Offenders – They Don’t Already?

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Match.com announced that they will begin checking the National Sex Offender Registry when people sign up to use their online dating service today.  What is truly amazing is that they were not already doing so.  Perhaps I was remiss in thinking that this would be a logical thing for a dating service to be doing.  Regardless, they are doing so now.

The company has started doing this in large part because of a huge lawsuit filed in California by a woman that says she was raped by a Match.com date.  The lawsuit claimed that the man forced his way into her apartment on the second date and proceeded to rape her.  The man named in the lawsuit allegedly had six different sexual battery charges in his history in Los Angeles County, not to mention anywhere else.

The woman says that because Match.com did not screen for predators that are known, that she was at risk.  This seems contrary to what Match.com had in their terms of service.

In the terms of service and enrollment agreement on Match.com, it clearly states that individuals are solely responsible for any and all meetings and results between dates.  In other words, Match.com has no responsibility when damages are incurred from meeting someone on the site and seeing them. (paraphrased from the site)  The terms are rather clear, but that does not seem to be stopping the case from moving forward.

The woman says that it was rape, while the man claims it was consensual.  Regardless, the case is one that seems to be changing the way Match.com does business.  They are changing the background checks on the site, and are now going to bounce the names against the registry.  It seems that this is a simple enough thing to do and one that should have been done to start with.

Perhaps that is the reason why the lady is pursuing this action in court.  While the website seems protected with the wording included on the sign up sheet, it still can be held accountable under certain conditions.  Apparently Jane Doe’s lawyers feel strongly enough about the case to pursue it.  It should be interesting to see what comes of this and if it will change the industry standards in the months to come.

A safer online dating environment is certainly not a bad thing, but how much of that onus should fall upon the heads of the website?  Is much of this still not on us? I guess it depends upon what we perceive that we are paying for, and what we are actually getting for our membership.  Maybe it would be a good thing to offer extensive background checks on prospective matches.  I know that I would certainly pay for it if I were back in the dating scene somehow.  Safety is the most important thing when it comes to online dating, even though we may not realize it until after something bad like this happens.

We shall see in Los Angeles Court in due time.  It should be an interesting battle indeed.

This article is contributed by Rodney Southern, a freelance writer and sports columnist.  Rodney regularly publishes articles at collaborative writing sites such as HungryScholar.

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Patti Stanger of The Millionaire Matchmaker

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Patti Stanger of The Millionaire Matchmaker

According to the Examiner.com, Patti Stanger was recently at a speed dating event in Los Angeles and provided some helpful tips for those in attendance about meeting singles online and online dating. Stanger is the host of the popular network television program The Millionaire Matchmaker in addition to being the author of ‘Become your own matchmaker” and a celebrity host on XM Radio.

Her tips for the speed daters after listening in on some of the conversations included “Don’t tell your life story, Get to the point.” and “Let the men do the work.” She also provided tips to the Examiner.com team prior to the speed dating event. These tips included “Never go past two drinks on a date.” and “Don’t talk about the ex.”. No one wants to know about your last relationship unless they ask and then they still probably don’t want to know too much.

Finally there was a list of people to avoid that she shared which ranged from “Toxic People” and “Alcoholics” to “Addicts” and the “Fixers”. Your interruption is required on some of her personality descriptions. I think we will get more good advice from Stanger in the coming weeks as her book goes to paperback at the end of the month.

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