Get chocolate roses for your girlfriend

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Wouldn’t it be nice if you could come up with a gift that a) is chocolate b) is flowers and c) is more original than both of the above?  Well, now it’s here: chocolate roses and they are easy enough to buy online, but they are not exactly easy to find in the stores so if she hasn’t been looking for them, it’s not going to be an issue of her going “Oh, thanks, yeah I saw these in x store last week” which would be a bit embarrassing.  It’s best, as I’m sure you know, to give your girlfriend gifts which show that you went a little out of your way to find them because as I’m sure you know by now, girls love a surprise, and they are also better shoppers (generally) and know where all the cool and new things are they they love to have, so if you can find her something different, you will certainly look pretty clever in her eyes.

If you want to buy chocolate roses it won’t be an issue where to buy them from.  For instance as I mentioned, getting them online is an ideal way to buy the chocolate flowers without having to leave your home and yet it will still be a personal gift, you can order them to your own address rather than to hers and thus add a personal note card or maybe a pretty vase which you can pick up at a gift store or drugstore.  You could also do gift wrapped chocolate roses yourself even if you consider yourself a clumsy gift wrapper – girls always appreciate when guys take the time to try and wrap something for them – pick out a pretty wrapping paper at the post office and some sticky tape and do your best – she’ll love you for it!

Chocolate roses come in plenty of flavors and colors and I have no doubt that these candy lollies will delight your girlfriend no matter what the occasion.

Using the “Option Limitation” to Maximize you’re Dating Success

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Using the “Option Limitation” to Maximize you’re Dating Success

When you are trying to attract women, make sure that you understand what she wants, because most men think that it is all about their look and the content of their wallet. If you happen to ask the girl that you like what she wants, your chances of seducing her will be really small. Furthermore, every woman in the world wants to have a more confident man by her side, so you have to become one. For that reason you will have to learn how to be more attractive and confident, but without becoming arrogant or desperate.

The main thing that you have to do is to make sure that you learn all the psychological tactics and rules, because they are the essential part of the whole seduction game. Furthermore, you will be able to plan the whole seduction game and turn the odds in your favor. One of the best psychological techniques that you will be able to use for that purpose is called option limitation and I can assure you that when you are using it, you will increase the chances of getting any girl that you like by more than 50 percent.

The basics of that procedure is that  you present the girl that you like with more than 1 option, which will cause her to choose the option that is suitable for you. For example if you present the girl with only one option, she is likely to choose something that is quite opposite and you will not be happy at all, but if you present her with 2-3 choices, she is more likely to choose one. Those are the main principals of the human nature and I can assure you that they will work for any girl without exception. It is very important to carefully choose the phrases that you will be using, because if you do not, you will decrease your chances of seducing the girl.

I would like to point out one example of how you will be able to use the “Option Limitation”. Most of the men say “Can I get your number?” which is the perfect way to finish a conversation with a girl. However the option limitation will work, when you say “I would like to get your number and I can call you to have dinner or a coffee tomorrow”. The first example will present the girl with only one option and in most cases, she will reject it. However using the second example you will present her with a choice between good and better, which in most of the cases will allow you to get both the number and set the next date. Make sure that you will use the “Option Limitation” in every possible situation, because it will have an effect for sure. Furthermore, make sure that you will use “or” to separate the choices that you are presenting the girl with, because that way she will subconsciously recognize that you are giving her the freedom to choose.

If you are willing to learn all the tricks that women use, make sure to read GuyGetsGirl, because it is probably the best guide available on the market. Furthermore, with that guide you will learn what some of the best techniques are that you can use to attract and seduce women, without these there is only your looks and financial status. I can assure you that all the techniques that are mentioned in that guide work and you will have a lot better dating experience for sure.

Secrets To Dating And Attracting A Younger Woman

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Secrets To Dating And Attracting A Younger Woman

My friend John usually asks me for advice on dating girls. He is bouncing back from a divorce, and is currently in his 40’s. The problem is, he’s having a hard time getting back into the "pickup" game.

Similar to older guys who study my dating programs, John particularly likes women younger than him. His ideal dating partner is an attractive girl in her mid-twenties or early thirties. He does everything to maintain his body and stay in shape. He’s a fun-loving guy with a positive outlook in life. So what keeps John from finding success with girls?

He has a common, major problem that lots of guys are facing: he often finds it difficult to "Close The Deal".

Just yesterday, John contacted me with a question that bothers him:

"How do I get a girl to come over to my place?"

This question usually arises right after a date with an attractive woman. The guy has already spent some money on dinner, and the girl is somewhat tired physically. In turn, the guy tries to "recoup" his money and time investment by inviting the girl back to his place, hoping that at least she would agree (if not, the guy is somehow hoping for a good night kiss).

But you know what usually happens after that date? The girl says no. She’ll make some excuse, give the guy a handshake, say "Thank You", and decide to go home. It sucks, I know.

Do you know that there is a technique you can use to MAKE SURE that a woman will readily agree to come over to your place after a date?

Yes, there is something you can do. It’s a killer technique that I’ve used recently with awesome results.

First, keep in mind that most women have a Fear of The Unknown.

That’s the reason why all night long, you have to make the girl feel that you’re a trustworthy guy.

You can do this by dropping simple hints while you’re conversing with her. I’m sure you’re already familiar with this technique if you invested in my dating book, Mack Tactics.

Let me tell you this: if your goal is to invite her back to your place…and she’s never been there before…she will naturally feel hesitant to go there.

Remember? Fear of the unknown. All girls have it.

When you try to invite her to an unknown place, she will put up her defenses and start making excuses NOT TO.

Here are the possible thoughts running through her mind:

  • What if his place is unclean and uncomfortable? (Discomfort is not a good sell)
    * What if he has an eccentric roommate?
    * What if he’s married or has a live-in partner who suddenly shows up?
    * What if his place is EXTREMELY far away?

And so on.

Here’s what you need to do: work at OVERCOMING all her fears and concerns…and make going to your place an EASY decision.

So how can you do that?

It’s very simple, it’s right under your nose.

All you have to do is show her your place before you even go out with her.

Here’s the major format of this technique:

When you set the time and place for the date, tell her to meet you outside your place, which is just a "few blocks away". The idea is to ride in your car together to proceed to where you want to go in the date. (It could be a bar, restaurant, whatever).

And you know what, girls USUALLY agree to this kind of arrangement. Here’s the reason: she wants to find out where you live. Girls can be nosy. they want to see your place so they can form a general opinion about you.

Take Note: It is important to make it clear that you want to meet outside your place, instead of hang around INSIDE. Make it seem as if it’s going to take only a few seconds and that’s it’s no big deal.

OK, here’s what you do:

When her car arrives at your door, meet her outside (you must already be dressed up and appear ready to go on a date). Then tell her that you forgot to do something, and you need to go back inside for a few seconds (perhaps you need to make a phone call or send out an email).

"Hey, how are you…my goodness..I almost forgot, I need to make a quick phone call before we leave. It’s important. Come inside for a minute. It won’t take long"

She’ll usually agree to this for the reasons already stated above: she wants to see what kind of place you have, so she can form a general opinion about you.

She will agree to this. Naturally, she is curious to see the INTERIOR of where you live.

When she’s inside your place, pour her a glass of wine, then go away for a while so you can "make that phone call". While you’re not around, I can almost guarantee that she will SNOOP AROUND.

She’ll look at your pictures. She’ll check out what’s hanging on your walls. Heck, she might even open the fridge and find out what’s inside. The reason why she’s doing this is that she’s looking for some "evidence" that you have an existing relationship with someone else. Don’t let her find any.

She might also try the bathroom…so make sure that your bathroom is EXTRA clean as usual. Flush the toilet, and keep the flooring clean. Disinfect and eliminate any undesirable smell in there.

The idea is to let her get used to your place, so when you ask her to go back there later, she would have lesser or NO resistance at all.

After a few minutes, re-appear and proceed on your date.

This technique might seem very simple, but it’s actually a HUGE STEP, psychologically, that shatters a woman’s defenses and causes her to start feeling comfortable towards you.

At the end of your date, after you’ve spent time laughing and having a great time, she won’t hesitate to go back to your place to "watch a movie", or have a drink, or just relax — all because you already allowed her to become familiar with your place. It’s no longer UNKNOWN territory to her.

Three Great Sites for Over 40 Online Dating

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Three Great Sites for Over 40 Online Dating

When you’re past the age that you desire spending your nights looking for love in the local bars, going online can be a refreshing way to find quality dates safely. The workplace can be complicated while many of your associates are already taken. The stigma of online dating has ended with more and more people finding love and meeting others through technology. With many different dating sites available, we have picked three that offer mature dating opportunities for you.

Match.com

Match.com is one of the biggest and more popular sites online. Profiles can include up to 26 photos on the site which is nice with important questions being answered by many members prior to you finding their details. Twenty thousand new profiles a day makes your choices very good as you can be quite selective. There are fees to be a full member but the costs are refundable with a 6 month guarantee. Take a look today.

BabyBoomerDates.com

BabyBoomerDates.com is a member of a large online dating network which provides you will access to many different niches. Aimed at singles over 45, BabyBoomerDates.com is a great place to create a free profile and browse other members. There is a paid membership option which allows you to directly email others and make a connection.

Over40AndSingle.com

If you are looking for a completely free option, Over40AndSingle.com is the site for you. You can create a free profile, post photos, browse, search, email, and instant message other members without paying a fee. The site also has a vast number of articles for you to read that range from dating to sex and from finance to self-improvement. Take a look if you are over 40 and single.

Top Online Dating Service Websites

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Top Online Dating Service Websites

The top three online dating services of the year are most likely to be same top 3 as last year, as new polls are showing. Match.com, Yahoo! Personals and eHarmony are in the lead again for top honors as well as top revenue generation.

Here's another potential eHarmony date. Why do...
Here’s another potential eHarmony date. Why do you suppose he’s smiling? (Photo credit: David Reber’s Hammer Photography)

However, these top sites are now facing stiff competition from niche sites like JDate for Jewish singles, Christian Club for Christian singles, and Shaadi for Indian singles. Targeted sites like those are ever popular, and one can find a site that matches any discriminating love interest.

Even popular social networking sites like FaceBook and MySpace have organized themselves to cater to love seekers using single sub groups. But the biggest growth in the industry is coming from the most surprising spot in the world: India. India has two of the top 10 sites worldwide with Shaadi and Love From India garnering more then 15 million seekers per year.

 

 

Online Dating Growing Through the Ages

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Online Dating Growing Through the Ages

 

In the world of love, online dating services have become the apple in the Garden of Eden. Everyone is having a bite. Even those that thought just a few years back that they would never partake, now do. Only those that sell porn rival online dating sites.

 

Online Dating Workshop
Online Dating Workshop (Photo credit: jay mann)

 

Online dating services are usually defined as any online service that offers unmoderated matchmaking, although that definition is always changing. Take for example the relatively new offshoot of social networking for singles, with subgroups within Facebook and Second Life becoming de facto dating services.

 

But traditionally, sites like Match.com, Yahoo! Personals and eHarmony have led the charge, and continue to grow day by day. However, niche personal sites like JDate (for Jewish singles), Christian Mingle (for Christian singles) and Manhunt (for gay men) have become just as popular and offer a more select line of love interests for the discriminating and yearning heart.