Secrets To Attracting Hot, Younger Women Part III
The key is to let her get used to you touching her. Later when you’re together at the right place and the right time, she won’t object when you start holding her waist, or kiss her, and start the foreplay…all because you already conditioned her early on.
The main reason why guys fail to take things to the next level is because they are afraid of rejection. They fear that the girl will regard their movements as too aggressive. Later on, this lack of initiative backfires on the guy, because he will eventually lose the girl without getting laid or even kissed.
If you understand the attraction process, laid the right foundation, initiated stimulating conversation, then slowly build it up to physical touching…she will not object when you escalate things to the next level. But you have to take the lead. Be the one to make it happen.
Let me tell you a story. In the past, I’ve had a girl come over to my house and let her sleep on my bed. All night long, I didn’t try to do anything because I don’t want to botch things up. We just lay on the bed for hours, just talking and laughing. Later, she fell asleep while I remained awake all night..aroused.
I thought I did the right thing…that if I never pushed things to the next level, she will think of me as a gentleman and she’ll want to have sex the next time we’re together.
Sadly, there was no next time. She never contacted me again. We never went out again. That was the last time. By failing to take things to the next level, she lost interest in me.
I failed to realize that she’s a smart, sexually mature person.
When she agreed to come over to my house and sleep there, she already knew that we were supposed to make love. She was waiting for me to do something, but I didn’t. So that became the end of it.
The secret is to LEAD to sexual intimacy by following a series of steps progressively. The most common mistake that guys make is trying to get a girl to sleep with him before establishing the right foundation.
It is foolish to ask a girl out if you’ve never even spent some time talking with her and getting her interested. In the same way, it is useless to attempt a kiss if you’ve never established any previous physical contact.
You “set up” the first kiss my establishing minor, non-threatening physical contact with her all throughout the time you spend together. Some of these minor physical touches include brushing her hair aside if it’s flying around, giving her a short hand massage when she’s tired, placing your hand at the back of her waist while you’re leading her to a door.
Touching the back of her waist is an erogenous spot, meaning, it has lots of nerve endings that spark sexual attraction in women. Now you know. .
If the attraction starts to become mutual, she will usually say something about it in the form of hints. When she begins to express those hints, be as calm as before. Don’t jump to your seat as if you’re ready to devour her. Just be cool. If she starts to imply that she really likes you, give her a somewhat unclear reply that leaves her thinking:
HER: “So what you do you think…us?”
YOU: “You know what, I really had fun with you. Let’s just keep it cool and see what happens…no commitments and no pressure”.
(If you act as if you’re not in a hurry to get into a relationship with her and that you don’t give a damn whether it happens or not, the more she’ll get desperate to have you!)
And remember, as I said before, never give her a confirmation that you’re interested in her. Act as if you’re having fun and you enjoy being with her, but she should be left thinking to herself, “Does she REALLY like me, or not”?
Make her the one to crave for YOUR approval, not the other way around. Be the one in total control.
That’s the way it should be if you want to attract hot, young women to you.