Month: October 2010

5 Tips for Dating: The Keys to Success

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While some navigate the world of dating with ease, others struggle to get their feet on the ground. Dating is a science, with specific things that you should and shouldn’t do when trying to win someone over.

If you struggle to find the right words to say or struggle to know what to do on a date, we’re here to help. These five tips will help to make it easier for you as you work to impress someone on a first date.

1) Skip the Movie

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One of the first things that people turn to when thinking about their first date is the movie theater. People always try to use movies as a way to break the ice during a first date. This is incredibly unfortunate, as movies are generally considered to be the worst first dates to go on. Think about it: if you are watching a movie, how are you supposed to get to know the person? Sitting next to someone for two hours while silently watching a movie is not a great way to start of a date. Go to dinner or a coffee shop instead to have a public setting that allows for conversation.

2) Ask Questions

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If you are going on a date, you need to think about the others person. You are there to learn about the person, not to talk about yourself. BE sure to keep asking the person questions about who they are and what they enjoy. People like to talk about themselves, and they like to know that someone is interested in who they are.

3) Avoid Bad Questions

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There are some questions that are simply inappropriate for a first date. Do not ask the person about previous boyfriends or girlfriends, and do not ask the date extremely person questions. Asking about sexual preferences or income amounts are sure-fire ways to ruin the date.

4) Pay

Pay for the Date

There are some people who say that splitting the bill on a first date is the best move to make. Avoid that – simply step up and pay for the dinner. Both men and women will be impressed by someone who pays for their dinner.

5) Be Yourself

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At the end of the day, you simply need to be yourself. Do not try to put up a front and act like someone you are not – the person won’t be falling for you, they will be falling for who they think you are.

Some of these tips may go against everything that you would consider for a first date, such as skipping the movie. Other tips may seem relatively obvious, such as dressing to impress. In the end, anyone going on a first date may have cloudy judgment; they’re nervous and they’re excited. It can be easy to forget some of the most basic rules when you are getting ready to go on the date. Take the time to review these tips well in advance of your date. They will help you to prepare, helping you to make a great first impression.

The Top Three Places To Meet Guys

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Christian Singles

OK, I know how it is. You’re single and want a partner. All you can think about every night is how you can get a boyfriend fast, and the thought simply won’t shake. Being single certainly does have it’s benefits. You don’t have to answer to any one other then yourself, you can do what you want when you want, and you have the opportunity to talk to a whole heap of other men. But there comes a point in every girl’s life where it’s just best to get in a relationship. We as humans are made to want affection after all.

Some women however don’t know where to meet guys, so I thought I’d let you in on my top three places to meet a guy. Counting down from three to one, they are:

Number Three: At Speed Dating
Speed dating, this has to be one of the most fun ways to meet guys. You’re in a room with say about thirty guys, and you get to meet them all for about a minuet or two. At the end, you let the host know who you like, and if tyhey also selected they liked you then you can swap numbers or any other communication method you so choose. Speed dating can be great fun when you go with a single friend or two, the only reason why this wasn’t higher up on the list is because speed dating events aren’t on all the time. If you go once you’re probably waiting another month till you can go again.

Number Two: Online
Online dating is great because you can meet loads of guys every day. What more could you ask for? My personal favorite dating website is eHarmony. It’s unlike other dating sites as instead of going through everyone’s profile yourself and choosing based on what they write, you’re giving a questionnaire which learns the real you (And the other people) and they make picks for you based on what you said in your answers. This means you’re more likely to meet someone you really get along with. Nice…

Number One: At A Bar
And the best place to meet guys, the good old fashioned bar. This wins over online dating because you get to instantly meet these people face to face so you get a better idea of what they’re about. Sometimes you just can’t beat the original ways.

Now you know, good luck in finding your man.

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Choosing the Perfect Restaurant for a Date

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Christian Singles

Date Restaurants

Asking someone out on a date can be a nerve-wracking process. You stutter around, trying to gain to the courage, and attempting to think up just the right words to ask her. Where to eat is one of the biggest decisions in asking someone out to dinner. What sort of restaurant is the best? In this article, I’m going to reveal some tips to finding the best restaurant to take your new date.

  1. Small is actually a lot better than bigger in this case. Don’t go to a restaurant that only seats four couples, but find one that will be slightly intimate without feeling uncomfortable. It will be much easier for a girl to carry on a conversation if she isn’t crowded in among forty strangers.

  2. Don’t choose a restaurant with bright, blaring lights. When you’re going out for a romantic dinner, you don’t want to eat under 100-watt-bulbs. Neither do you want to eat in a room so dark that you can’t find your fork. Go for a restaurant that has soft, gentle lighting that is neither uncomfortably dark nor overwhelmingly bright.

  3. If you’re going for a restaurant that has live music, choose one that has soft classical, jazz, or folk music. Even if your date likes to listen to rap and heavy metal in her car, those don’t make good background music for a romantic dinner.

  4. Don’t go for a restaurant that is above your budget. You don’t want to spend your dinner cringing at the mere thought of the bill! There are many nice restaurants that serve wonderful food for reasonable prices.

  5. Do not choose a fast food restaurant. Nothing says tacky cheapskate quite like inviting your date to eat at McDonalds or Wendy’s. While these maybe fine places to stop by on future dates to the movies, they are far from good choices for a first date.

  6. Don’t choose a restaurant where your friends work or where you might run into acquaintances. Having your buddy sit down to talk about the scores of the ball game is a definite death of your budding relationship.

  7. Restaurants that allow dancing are always a nice choice. While your date may not feel comfortable enough with you to dance yet, it still provides a nice opportunity.

With these tips in mind, finding the perfect restaurant should be easy. If you happen to live or be in the Southern Wisconsin area, then find some great Madison restaurants that would be perfect for a date.

Remember to sweep your date off her feet by providing her with a better dinner experience than she has had with any other men. If fate permits, this will be the first of many wonderful dates together.

Have You Tried Dating in a 3D World Online?

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Christian Singles

Finding the perfect person to date can be hard. Although many people may not realize this, it has actually become much easier to meet the perfect guy. This is partially because you are no longer limited to those people who are close to you geographically. Rather than being stuck only able to date people who live close to you, you can use the internet and other technology to meet, talk to, and even date people who live on the other side of the world. With this many new people added to the dating pool, no wonder it is becoming easier to find someone who  is your perfect match.

Stigmas Associated with Internet Dating

Although it is becoming increasingly common, there are still several stigmas that are attached to those who date people using the internet. Often times these people will be criticized for being too lonely or desperate, but this is in no way the case. There are a number of ways to meet people, and the internet is no more lonely or desperate than any other method. As internet dating becomes increasingly common, the stigmas associated with it are becoming less and less common.

Why 3D Online Dating?

Traditional internet dating is done one of two ways. You either meet on the internet and talk constantly using the phone, instant messengers, or email, and then eventually meet up in person in order to actually date. This is a very common method, but it does not work in every scenario. If you are lucky enough to find someone on the internet who lives close to you, then this is the perfect solution.  However the internet is so vast that it is unlikely that the person you like will be able to regularly make trips in order for you two to meet in person. The unfortunate facts are that it is much more likely that your special someone is unable to make the trip over in order for you two to meet.

3D games gives you the best of both worlds. You two can interact with each other in private chat rooms, without the huge costs of multiple long trips. By using free online games instead of simply emailing each other, you can be much more intimate and close than with traditional methods. 3D online dating is a cheap and effective alternative to long, expensive trips.

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Dating Manifesto: A Breif Guide

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Christian Singles

A dating manifesto, this quick guide will cover the three main areas of dating: becoming a more powerful you, finding a date to date, and establishing a healthy long term relationship with that person. This first part, becoming a more powerful you is an area that is often neglected. Too many focus on the external: Looks, image, stuff, junk. All in an effort to attract that perfect someone they wish to meet. The problem with this approach is to attract the best you do need to be the best. But being the best is not simply a measure of how much stuff you have, it is also about your character. Work on your personal character traits first before bringing someone else into the picture.

The next part is to find someone to actually date. Online is a really good avenue. There are tons of online dating tips, but the most important thing to remember is to be yourself and project who you really are. This is what life coaching is all about. Showing off the best parts of you to the rest of the world. Now of course this is easier said than done. We all tend to get caught up in trying to project what we think other people would like while the reality of the situation is people will like us or not like us based on who we really are. Accept this and strive to show off the real you, or at least the best parts of the real you.

The last part of this brief manifesto on dating is to establish a relationship with someone you have gone out on a few dates with. This part is really not that complicated. Simply be upfront about how you feel. Literally come right out and say how you feel to the other person. Tell them that you want to explore a relationship. If they say no, that is OK, move on. However if they say yes, then you’re off to the races!

10 Ways to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back

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Christian Singles

If you have recently ended your relationship with your boyfriend and want to know how get him back then there are several things you can do. You need to be sure that this is actually what you want before making an effort with him again. It will also help to have some idea of where he stands on the issue, is he interested at all? If not then you are just wasting time and setting yourself up for more pain if you are rejected by him.

For 10 simple things you can do to remedy the situation, check out the post at 10 ways to get your ex boyfriend back.

You will likely need to be very patient when trying to get your ex back. The last thing you want to do is look desperate and clingy by constantly calling and texting him soon after the break up. Don’t get yourself a name as the crazy ex!

When trying to work out how to get him back you will be very wise to focus on the problems or issues that resulted in the break up. Who’s fault was it? If it was down to you then be ready to apologize. If he was to blame then he needs to know that you have forgiven him and are ready to move on, putting the past firmly behind you.

When blame has been sorted out and forgiven, there is still the issue of actually correcting the problems which caused the relationship to end in the first place. This can often be awkward but the only way to do it successfully is to sit down like adults and talk things out. Getting your ex back can be difficult but is definitely possible on many occasions if you are both willing to work on the relationship together. Obviously you must both want things back the way they were as well.

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