Christian Online Dating Has Come a Long Way

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It used to be that for a man and a woman to go on a date, the man has to first meet and ask the woman in person for a possible date.  And before that happens, some kind of initial acquaintance meeting has already happened between the two.  It’s somewhat different now.  Christian online dating has come a long way from the way it was before without the Internet.

Of course, there was already a telephone also back then and it has helped for two persons to get to know each other the long distance way.  But it had the disadvantage of getting-to-know-each-other only through hearing, through sound, on the phone.  They can only hear each other’s voices and that’s it.  It was limited.  It’s totally different now with Christian online dating the way it is being done today in cyberspace.  Christian café locations and other Christian dating sites on the Internet have superseded many of the traditional dating methods.

Dating During a Bygone Era

It used to be: a man and a woman would personally see each other, go on a date, spend time together, and get to know each other one-on-one – in person.  It helped the couple get to know each other better.  With the coming of the telephone, it became easier to just call and make an appointment – a date – before proceeding on the appointed time.

It used to be that a man would travel long distances, across rivers, across mountain, travel half the globe, just to be able to propose to a woman.  The Internet has really changed a lot of the way we do things.  But now, this can be done through Christian online dating right in one’s own home.

The New Era

With the coming of the Internet, and with the advancements that has come along with it, it is now possible to not only chat (typing text messages on the keyboard) and voice chat (using the microphone) but now, it has also become possible to even see the other person you are talking to on the other side of the globe – real time (through a webcam).  It’s been a great plus for Christian online dating.  Now they can see each other and somehow “see” and “feel” for each other.

It is now possible for single Christians to be able to get to know more singles from other parts of the globe without having to travel long distances and spend a lot of money.  Time, money, effort – lots of it are spent back then.  But now, with just a few clicks of a button on your keyboard, in the comfort of one’s home, a singles can go Christian online dating and get to know more fellow Christians around the world.  This is a great advancement.

How to handle the physical contact when you are trying to attract a woman?

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How to handle the physical contact when you are trying to attract a woman?

One of the main components of seduction is physical contact. Simply, it is not possible to get a girl if you do not put out a certain amount of touching. However, make sure that you do not make the girl feel uncomfortable, because you will ruin your chances of a successful date. Furthermore, that is one of the main problems for most, they do not know how to establish physical contact with the girl, without scaring her away.

Most men are simply rushing the physical contact, which is surely a guarantee that you will scare the girl away. Another common mistake that most men do is simply not taking any actions at all. Although that this will not make the girl feel uncomfortable, it will send the message that you are not interested in the girl at all.

There are some really simple things that you will be bale to do and I can assure you that this way you will send the right message, but will not scare away the girl. Furthermore, those steps are the main part of the whole successful dating process.

  1. First of all make sure you will not understand touching the girl first time you see her as a taboo, because that is the main event where you will have to show the girl that you really want to attract her. However this do not means that you should start kissing her or something like that, but simply touch the outside of her hand, when you are verbally expressing something. This way you will giver her clear sign that you are interested in her, so make sure that you will not be scared to try.
  2. Remember that when you are talking with a girl it is very important to keep up the physical contact, because that way you will keep the bond that you have created and also to extend it into future sexual attraction. In most of the books there are some techniques that you will be able to use to establish a physical contact with the women in a disguised way. This means for example if you want to show her the way to the bathroom, you simply put your hands on her shoulders and show her hoe to find the way. That is the best way to establish a physical contact with the woman if you are shy, because you will get all the benefits and in most of the cases she will not notice.
  3. Last, but not least make sure that you will use physical contact to close your meeting with the girl. This means that you must gently giver her kiss on the cheek or a hug and a kiss. That way you will be sure that she will want to meet with you again as soon as possible.

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Secrets To Attracting Hot, Younger Women Part I

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Secrets To Attracting Hot, Younger Women Part I

“Is he really interested me, or he’s just playing a game…the same way he does to other women?”

This is the line of thought that should run through a girl’s mind each time you’re flirting with her. It raises her level of desire to keep pushing things to the next level.

When she’s dealing a guy who sparks those kinds of thoughts in her mind, she’ll feel challenged to “perform” well, act in the sexiest way possible, just to get the complete approval she think she deserves.

The key, though, is to NEVER give 100% approval and confirmation that you have “feelings” for her. I’ll explain:

When a girl is interested in you, she’ll exhaust all means in order to discover if you feel the same way for her. This is because she feels that getting a guy to like her so bad is some sort of “success”.

You can actually drive women crazy, by never showing that you like them. This way, she’ll be challenged to keep working and working to gain your affection and attention.

This is the main reason why you should NEVER confess to a woman how badly you are attracted her, or admit how desperate you are to be her boyfriend (in fact, don’t be desperate at all). Stop cheesy lines and avoid insinuating that you two are “perfect” for each other.

I know that those things above sound romantic to guys, but in truth, hot women are usually turned off with them. I suggest  that you stop watching mushy Hollywood films and get back to the real world.

In movies, a geek introverted guy can attract the most popular hot girl in school…all because of him making a sudden romantic admission of his feelings. But it only happens in movies (rarely in real life).

In the real world, making a grand confession and admission of your “feelings” during the flirting/early-dating stage will be seen by the girl as a weakness in your personality.

Ninety percent of the time, admitting your feelings won’t urge the hot girl to tell you that she loves you too. In fact, she might get turned off! Chances are, she will begin to see you as a typical guy who can’t control his feelings and is desperately in love with her. For some reason, there’s no more challenge attached to you anymore, because she feels she’s already “won”.

Continued Tomorrow…