Flying Solo: 5 Things to do For Not so Desperate Singletons

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In modern society the world has placed a large emphasis on love. The media and ancient traditions have gently cultured us into believing our life goals should be focused on finding our soul mates and settling down. This is great for those who have found ‘the one’ and spend their lives indulging in Valentine’s Day and cosy weekends, but not all of us are that lucky in love.

If you’ve reached ‘the age’ with no ring on your finger or children at home, don’t avoid answering questions regarding your love life whilst desperately chasing your happily ever after. Simply tell them that there’s too much you’ve got to do before you start all that settling down malarkey.

Whether you’ve just left a long term relationship, are waiting to find that perfect someone, or you just don’t believe in fairy tales, there are plenty of things you can get your teeth into before walking up the aisle.

To prove it, here are a few ideas to get you started…

Make time for friends

Okay so you probably do make time for them when you’re in a relationship too, but it’s very common for your focus to change when you’re in love. Try and do the things that you probably couldn’t in a relationship such as going away for a weekend, partying until dawn, or even trying a bit of fancy dress. Remember there’s no one to tell you what not to do, or chasing up where you are, so enjoy the freedom, rebuild your friendships and remind them of your fun side.

 

 

Go on holiday (alone)

However scary it may seem, traveling whilst you’re single doesn’t mean spending your days going crazy on a remote island, like a scene from Cast away. There are plenty of travel companies offering single holidays with the benefits of group travel. This means you can meet up with other solo travelers on your trip whenever you like.

Step out of your comfort zone and visit places you’d never dream of going normally. You could go camping in New York, have fun in Las Vegas or see the sights in San Francisco. The opportunities are endless and you may even find your soul mate in the process.

Focus on your career

Now’s the time to do something you’ve always wanted to. You’re free to dedicate long hours, work on the weekends, take an evening course, or even get involved in some volunteering. Whatever you choose to do, you have the chance to work at being successful.

Feeling success will have a huge impact on your confidence and happiness which will in turn also affect your approach to relationships and finding that special someone.

Spend time with yourself

Only when you truly understand yourself will you begin to know what you want in life and from a potential partner. Being single allows you to explore your ambitions, what you enjoy and don’t enjoy doing and also teaches you how to forget about what other people think.

You can rest your happiness and self-esteem on yourself and with only you to care about, it’s time to take advantage and savour your singleness.

Do something that may otherwise need negotiating

That doesn’t mean rushing out and buying a Ferrari or spending thousands on a new pair of shoes. But buying a pet that you’ve always wanted, or focusing on your fitness with a few extra hours at the gym wouldn’t hurt, would it?

Have fun, keep your mind active and don’t worry about being single. Embrace it instead.

Hey, I’m Dave and I’ve been a single traveler for 3 years

Best Places to Visit on Singles Holidays

Christian Singles

With the freedom, excitement and opportunities that come with singles holidays, it’s no wonder that the choice to travel alone is becoming more and more popular amongst travelers.

For some, experiencing the world on your own is a daunting thought, but with a chance to have the security of a group and the independence to do what you like, who would want to travel any other way?

Traveling on your own is a great way to meet new people, face unique challenges and most importantly get away from all the hustle and bustle of your regular routine. Specialist travel companies offer group discount too, which means you won’t miss out on great deals by traveling alone.

There’s plenty of exciting singles trips to choose from, but with America’s diversity and wide range of cultures you’ll feel like you’re experiencing lots of journeys in one. Ride thrilling roller-coaster rides at Walt Disney World in Florida, or zip line in the cloud forest of Monteverde, in Costa Rica. There’s a whole range of USA activity holidays waiting to be discovered and no two experiences are ever the same.

Can’t decide where to go first? Here’s a few of the best destinations for singles holidays below.

Los Angeles

Witness the enticing illuminations of the LA strip, the stunning views of Venice beach and take spectacular walks down the Hollywood Walk of Fame, the fun in Los Angeles never stops. Here you’ll have the chance to experience the famous Hollywood Boulevard with an unlimited array of shopping and sightseeing to enjoy with your new found friends.

Be in your element with your very own tour of Tinseltown and experience a unique culture without the need to learn the language. You do however, with all destinations, need to make sure the travel company you’re touring with is suited to the single traveler and possesses the knowledge and dedication to make your trip unforgettable.

Get ready to discover the adventurous spirit you were blessed with in the City of Angels.

San Francisco

Known for the great red-orange length of its iconic golden gate bridge, San Francisco is an eclectic mix of breath-taking sights, exciting activities and delicious cuisine to sink your teeth into.

Hang out with your tour group, or explore on your own whenever you feel like it as you experience the thrill of historic cable cars, the unique culture of Chinatown and not forgetting a ride on the waves with the city’s vibrant surfing community.

If you enjoy a bit of history, the northern waterfront area of San Francisco is the place to visit. Stroll along Fisherman’s Wharf for a taste of fine quality seafood, a spot of fishing and an unforgettable boat trip to the island of Alcatraz. Then as the sun sets, enjoy a taste of San Francisco’s exciting nightlife with your new found friends.

Leave your heart in San Francisco and discover a memorable trip you’ll want to experience again and again.

New York

A trip to New York takes in everything from soaring skyscrapers and finest multicultural cuisines, to illuminous Broadway theatre and one of the most iconic symbols in the world – The Statue of Liberty.

The big apple has plenty to offer for enthusiastic travelers with rich cultured sightseeing and hundreds of mini experiences to enjoy with your traveling friends like theater, art, fashion and music. You and you’re tour group will never go hungry for things to see and do and if you’re want a bit of ‘me’ time, grab a coffee and take a pew under the tranquil trees of central park.

Whether you choose to be left alone, or embrace the opportunity to interact and meet with new people, singles holidays are an amazing way to experience the world.

My names Chris, and I’ve been traveling the globe for 18 months. I love to share my stories and give tips to those thinking of beginning their travels around the world.

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