Dating in a Foreign Country

Christian Singles

Traveling abroad is a unique opportunity to get completely immersed in an entirely new culture.  You have the chance to learn about history, taste traditional foods and beverages, explore city landmarks, and possibly practice a second language.  Why not share this amazing experience with a stud muffin from the area?

Dating abroad can be refreshing and incredibly fun!  That being said, many people are skeptical of foreign flirtation, so I’ve created the following convincing argument:

Why date abroad?

1.  Because the men in your city just aren’t cutting it.  Surrounded by elderly gents?  Military men?  Gangsters?  Move it or lose it, sister!  Get out of town and explore what else the world has to offer.  There are nearly 7 billion people on this planet.  The problem is they’re not all conveniently located within a 60-mile radius.  That would be absolutely terrifying.  Time to set your sights on a new land and a new man!
2.  Visit a foreign city’s hidden gems.  Blend in with the locals at the best pubs, restaurants, stores, and city hot spots that tourists don’t know about.  Yes, you’re probably using your date to be hipster cool in a foreign city, but he’s probably using you to look popular…sooo whatever.
3.  Opportunity to learn and practice a foreign language.  Si, oui, da…that’s what you’ll say when the cute guy asks you out.  In all honesty, dating someone who speaks in a foreign tongue can be the best way to learn a new language.  You pick up on vocabulary quickly, and you begin to perfect the accent.  One of the perks: If you mess up, you don’t get reprimanded; you get kissed.
4.  Learn from the movie thriller Taken.  Without a doubt, there are dangerous, manipulative men everywhere, and they target innocent, female tourists.  Don’t be naïve.  It’s incredibly important to be hyper aware of your surroundings.  Avoid travelling places alone and always let a friend know where you’ll be going.  It is probably a smart idea to meet in a crowded place for your first dinner date.  Good luck.
5.  What’s the worst that could happen?  Chances are you’re in this new place for a limited amount of time.  If you somehow manage to make a disaster out of your date, you can avoid run-ins with the guy for a very, very long time.  Takes a lot of the pressure off!
6.  Great storytelling!  Your friends back home will undoubtedly want juicy details from your travels.  They will absolutely love hearing about your date, and you will enjoy re-living the romance, humor, or drama.
7.  Dating is a great way to meet people anywhere.  No matter the place, you can always enjoy time spent with someone new, interesting, and exciting.  Every date teaches you something—about the place, the person, and/or yourself!
Convinced?  I sure hope so!  Start planning your next adventure abroad and be open-minded about the foreign dating game. You might fall in love with the place or the man…or both.  You can definitely find reasonable flights on travel sights, such as Travelocity.com.  Don’t forget to use a promo code for Travelocity to save!

Erin Prickett is a dating enthusiast and an experienced traveler.  She spent a summer in Mexico and four months exploring several parts of Europe.  Prickett recommends that you use a promo code for Travelocity to save on your next romantic adventure.

The Top 5 Ways to Kill Someone’s Interest in You

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I remember a time when this guy was interested in me. He was doing everything he could to make sure I noticed that he was in to me, and I was doing everything I could to make sure he didn’t know I was interested in him too. Of course soon he gave up on me and found someone else. That’s a mistake I never made again!

If you are single and looking then you probably don’t want to ruin your chances with someone who is interested in you – especially if you are interested in them back. By avoiding doing all the wrong things that drive them away, you will naturally do all the right things that keep them attracted to you, so here are the top 5 ways to kill someone’s interest in you.

1. Pretending You Are Not Interested in Them

Many people are advised to play this game with someone that is interested in them. It’s supposed to be a way to make them even more interested in you – kind of like a cat and mouse situation where they have to chase you. For the most part it doesn’t work.

Normally the person doing the ‘chasing’ becomes unsure of whether or not the ‘chasee’ is really interested in them. Soon the fear of rejection causes them to lose interest in the chase and move onto someone else. And even if they are not scared of you rejecting them, they will probably just grow tired of your coy attitude with them and give up.

2. Trying to Make Them Jealous

This is another game that many people are advised to play. It’s supposed to make the person attracted to you grow even more attracted to you due to jealousy. It’s a dangerous game, and instead of winning at the game, most of the time your admirer will quickly grow angry that you chose someone else instead of them. This will cause them to move on to someone who actually shows interest in them, and them only.

3. Showing Your Mean Side

If your admirer is attracted to you it’s probably because of one or more admirable traits. But nothing can overshadow those traits like a fit of rage and anger can.

Not many people will be attracted to you because you are mean or cold in nature. Even a glimpse of that side of you may be enough to turn someone off, so remember to always show your best side out in public – and try to always live your best side. You will be happier and you will keep your admirers around!

4. Complaining

A person can only listen to so much complaining from someone before they completely cut that person off from their ‘I’m attracted to this person’ list. Complaining makes you look crabby, unreasonable, and difficult to deal with. Who would want to get into a relationship with someone like that?

To thwart complaining start taking action! Don’t waste time complaining but instead fix the issues that would cause you to complain in the first place. It’s much more admirable. Plus you will gain attraction by your admirer if you are a go-doer who gets things done.

5. Criticizing Them The Wrong Way

Chances are the person interested in you is involved in your life some way. If you are interacting on a conversational level then you want to make sure that you don’t bruise their ego in some way or make them feel as though you believe you are superior to them.

If you point the finger at someone and tell them they are doing something wrong in a negative way then you will instantly lose their respect and gain their annoyance. You may think that you are being helpful when you tell them how to do something, but you may actually cause them to think that you are telling them that they are wrong and you are right. Anyone attracted to you will be turned off immediately!

Of course there are times that they will be doing something wrong and you may need to direct them in a different direction. Instead of pointing the finger or blaming them in a direct way, use the indirect method with constructive criticism. This means giving them positive feedback followed by constructive criticism.

For instance, if you are critiquing an office memo they wrote then you may want say something like ‘You really know what you are doing when it comes to getting your point across!’ followed by constructive criticism such as ‘maybe you can point out even more great things about not eating other people’s lunches.’ This sounds a lot better than saying ‘You need to add more detail to that list!’

While these are the top 5 ways to kill someone’s interest in you, there are many ways to lose the interest of an admirer. Remember that keeping their interest boils down to being the real you, letting them see you in a positive light, and making them feel as though you value them. Remember those tips and your admirers will always admirer you.

About The Author:

Bellaisa writes for the Relationship Circle, a blog with relationship advice on everything from common relationship issues to how to find love.

7 Ways to Start a Conversation with the Cutie You’ve Been Eying

Christian Singles

Ok gals. There is probably a guy that you are thinking about right now. He’s probably super cute, and awesome, but you haven’t had the nerve to talk to him. It’s ok, we all get like that with cute guys! If you want to talk to the cute guy and you want to get to know him better, here are some tips to start a conversation with him.

  1. Ask him for directions. If you find that he is an expert when it comes to directions, ask him how to get somewhere. If you are very daring, call him when you get “lost”. It’s a great idea to strike up a conversation with him.
  2. Ask about the train/bus/school schedule. If you spot your cutie on a bus, don’t be afraid to ask him about the schedule. It is a great idea to start a conversation.
  3. Ask him what he likes to order. If you frequently see your cutie in a coffee shop, or a bakery, ask him what he likes to order. If he’s the cashier, this is a great way to strike up a great conversation. You might find that you have a lot of things in common.
  4. Ask about what he is reading. See what he is reading. It’s a good idea to comment on it if it is something that you would be interested in! You can have a great connection.
  5. Ask about the game. Ask him about the sports game that he is watching. Show him that you are interesting in sports. Guys love girls that are into sports.
  6. Send him a drink. If you see him at a bar, don’t be afraid to send him a drink. It will show that you are interested. And, if he’s not interested, he won’t take the drink. But don’t worry, there are plenty of other guys out there.

  7. Ask your guy about the technology he likes. Lot’s of guys love technology. If the guy that you are crushing on has some cool gadgets, ask him about them. He will love to talk about the latest gadgets that he has.

Good luck when it comes to talking to the cutie that you have been eying. These are some great ways to start a conversation. If the cutie doesn’t take notice, don’t fret. There are plenty of other guys out there. Don’t be afraid to give him some space, you don’t want to scare the guy!

 

About the Author
Tammi Jenkins is a writer for MyCollegesandCareers.com. My Colleges and Careers is a service that will help you find online schools that are best for you.

Meeting THE ONE on Holiday

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In the UK and beyond, there are ever increasing numbers of single and divorced people looking to begin a new relationship. However, it’s not always easy to meet similar-minded individuals these days. Dating websites are fine, of course, but they deter some men and women because there is something a little hit and miss about this method.

If you become a member of such a site, you can arrange meetings with potential partners of the future, of course, but that all-important first meeting can be extremely difficult. It can be awkward and stilted because of shyness and uncertainty, which means the lack of a natural start to a relationship can prevent it ever beginning in the first place.

The solution is simple but very difficult to actually arrange. The best way to meet people is to do so in a relaxed setting and amid a comfortable atmosphere, but this can be tricky to arrange. A singles night in a local pub always sounds like a good idea, but it contains a certain whiff of desperation for some people, and it often leads to disappointment.

There is an alternative these days, however, and it’s one which pretty much guarantees an opportunity to meet people when they’re at their most relaxed. A singles holiday to one of Europe’s hot-spots provides the ideal opportunity to get to know men and women when they’re away from the stresses of family and working lives.

One of the most popular holiday destinations in Europe is the island of Cyprus. Located in the eastern Mediterranean, it combines a wonderful climate, some stunning beaches and a whole host of inviting bars, restaurants and clubs. Each of these places gives ultra-relaxed holiday-makers a wonderful opportunity to get to know their fellow travellers in an atmosphere that lends itself perfectly to the possibilities of burgeoning romance.

The European tourist industry has suffered greatly in the wake of the economic downturn in recent years, but the rise in popularity of singles holidays is one of several reasons why those in the know are predicting an imminent improvement. In the next few years, who knows how many established couples will look back on their trip to Cyprus and reminisce about how they first met?

Although some people see a summer holiday as nothing more than an opportunity to soak up the sun and improve the tan, many others like to explore their destination in greater detail. The island of Cyprus is home to many fascinating towns and villages, so hiring a car is always a good idea, and it can be extremely inexpensive, too.

Perhaps the best places on the island in which to get to know other singles are the iconic beachside bars. They provide the perfect location to enjoy a cool drink and a relaxing chat, and all with the stunning backdrop of the beautiful Mediterranean Sea. And if the chemistry works well, there are so many pleasant restaurants to choose from. A delicious meal in a top quality eatery can help the conversation to flow naturally; it’s all so much more pleasant than a stuffy singles night in a British pub, and of course far more personal than an Internet dating site.

David Rice is based in the UK and met his current girlfiiend while holidaying in Europe. He knows that when it comes to car hire Cyprus is surprisingly affordable. With the many Cyprus car hire options currently available, he recommends checking prices on the Internet before tavelling.

Pros and Cons of Online Free Dating Websites

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Online free dating websites have pros and cons that you should know of if you want to use their services successfully. Whether you are looking for a partner in life, a friend or a soul mate, signing up for an online dating site for free is the best option. There are numerous online free dating websites that you can take advantage of. In finding your perfect partner, you need to learn about the pros and cons of these online free dating websites.

Pros of using an online dating site for free
• You don’t have to spend money to search for a partner in any of the online free dating websites. All you have to do is to use all the applications of the online dating site for free and you’ll surely succeed in your quest.
• You can meet thousands of prospective partners online so you have the opportunity to choose the best person from all the online free dating websites.
• You can socialize in the online dating site for free without leaving the confines of your room. Because you can reach any person with an Internet connection, you can travel around the world in a span of a few minutes.
• All online free dating websites feature privacy settings to protect your personal information.
• You can easily get out of the online dating site for free if you don’t like its services.
• You can also enjoy having friends if you don’t want commitment.
• Online free dating websites are fun when you know how to use all the features available in the online dating site for free. Learn how to use them so that you would enjoy your membership.
• Online free dating websites allows you to use a pen name so you can opt to use it, if you so desire.
Cons of using online free dating websites
• Although there are general safety methods to protect your personal information, you still need to be careful in posting unnecessary data may compromise your personal safety when using an online dating site for free. Don’t provide all data like your address, complete name, Bank account number, and similar information. Scammers have a way of using such information to make money.
• Do not commit to any member in any online dating site for free until you have met the person offline. Sometimes, you cannot come to know a person well just by being in contact with him online. Be sure to meet in a public place where there are many people, and not in your house, for safety reasons.

These are the pros and cons of online free dating websites. You have to be familiar with them if you want to succeed in finding your soul mate or partner in an online dating site for free. Observing hidden signals and reading between the lines would help a lot when you sign up for these online free dating websites. Be a wise user by selecting carefully whom to befriend and whom to reveal your private information to in these online free dating websites.

Pointers in Choosing Your Online Dating Site for Free

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Choosing your online dating site for free can be an easy task by following certain pointers. You should not be too excited to choose the first online dating site for free that you come across with. Remember that this is a crucial move on your part and taking things so hastily would engender yourself. To help you in your choice of any of the online free dating websites, here are significant pointers you can adapt.

Check if the online dating site for free is legitimate
Checking if the online dating site for free is legitimate is a smart move. Before you commit to anything else- like signing up – you should determine if the online dating site for free is reliable and genuine. You can look at its online integrity by the length of years it has been providing its services. Some online free dating websites do not prosper and get dissolved after a few months.

Read customers’ reviews to learn about the site
This is one of the best methods to help you know if the online dating site for free provides good services or not. Peruse the reviews and check for negative comments. You should be able to determine whether a review is a marketing post or not, by the unbiased comments of the users. A good review tells readers about the advantages and disadvantages of each of the online free dating websites.

Use the search engine responsibly when looking for online free dating websites
Online free dating websites are many but not all of the good ones are found in first pages of your Search Engine Results Pages (SERP). You may want to browse the next pages of your SERP to find the ideal online dating site for free.

Opt for the trial period
You can always opt for the trial period of one of the online dating site for free before you sign up. You can become a member of all the online free dating websites and then choose which one provides the best services.
Choose the best among the online free dating websites that suits your personality

What’s best for another person, may not be good for you, so determine the services offered by these online free dating websites and decide from there. Your personality should suit the online dating site for free that you have chosen.
Meet various members of the online dating site for free before committing

Do not commit yourself prematurely. Meet various members of the online dating site for free before committing. Remember that you are looking for someone to spend the rest of your life with, hopefully. If you are only after friendships in any of these online free dating websites. Then you can choose more freely taking care to indicate your intention at the onset of your getting to know each other.

These online free dating websites could be of great service to you if you know how to use them properly and appropriately. Hopefully, the online dating site for free can be a stepping stone for you to meet your future partner in life, or your soul mate in this lifetime.