My friend John usually asks me for advice on dating girls. He is bouncing back from a divorce, and is currently in his 40’s. The problem is, he’s having a hard time getting back into the “pickup” game.

Dating and getting younger women does not depend on your age, or how wide the age difference you have with the girl. The principles of attraction works for any woman of any age. It’s just a matter adjusting your tactics a little bit if you want to date someone younger.

The key is to let her get used to you touching her. Later when you’re together at the right place and the right time, she won’t object when you start holding her waist, or kiss her, and start the foreplay…all because you already conditioned her early on.

Instead of doing some cheesy admissions, be cool, calm, and act as if you don’t give care too much.

“Is he really interested me, or he’s just playing a game…the same way he does to other women?”

When the music is blaring and there’s lots and lots of competition, how do you get the killer edge? You’re not the sharpest tool in the shed, neither the best looking person there. You got that really good dancer showing his moves and it really makes you look silly with your little “feet dance”… so how do you get that killer blonde on the dance floor, that has an army of lads and girl friends around her?