How to Play Hard to Get

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Playing hard to get may seem like a lost art in today’s dating world where it is accepted as normal for women to take the reigns in intimate relationships. This development has seen women in turn pursuing men as opposed to being pursued by men. This cultural shift has led to what many see as a phenomenon. Some women even propose marriage to their partners. Nevertheless studies assert that men are natural born hunters and so they enjoy a good game of pursuing a woman he has deemed worthy of his affections. As such, while one is not suggesting that women have to be prudish and hard heartened, a well played deck of hard to get cards can lead to a man become even more enthralled with the woman he desires to possess. Playing hard to get can add fire and fun to the dating scene and making it a little more interesting. Putting hard to get techniques into practices however is not as unattainable as some may think. It may simply be a matter of reading well into the dating game, having a basic understanding of the psychology of men and holding back a little. The most important part of a successful game of hard to get is that of mystery. Here is how to capture some of that mystery.

  1. The first step in playing hard to get is showing an interest in the other person without appearing to be too eager. This can be done by laughing at jokes, asking and responding to open ended questions and showing positive body language signals such as looking the person in the face/eyes when listening or responding during conversation. The trick here is to appear interested and polite without appearing desperate or needy.
  2. Do not reveal too much about oneself. One trick to playing hard to get, is to not give off enough information about oneself. This is especially true in the early stages of the dating game. Be receptive but remember there will be plenty of time to get to learn more about each other. As such everything, such as the most personal and intimate details of one’s life need not be mentioned.
  3. Keep an active schedule. Remember even though one is dating a person of interest, one does not need to rearrange one’s entire schedule in the hopes that spending time with this new prospect will fill it. Continue to enjoy the activities that one previously did as this will make one appear more purposeful in one’s own life. This will allow the other person to really endeavour to get and keep one’s attention. This will give the impression that one has a life of one’s own and as such one’s attention is hard to come by.

Tips and Warnings

  • Although playing hard to get is generally used by women to attract men. Both men and women can put the principles of playing hard to get into practice. However, if both persons are playing hard to get, it can become a frustrating situation where both parties seem to be getting nowhere.
  • It is assumed before playing hard to get that the persons involved are at the very least dating and are interested in further intimacy.
  • There is a fine line between being hard to get and being seen as unavailable. Persons should tread this line very carefully so as to not cause the other party to lose interest in the prospects of furthering relations.

Leslie O’Neill writes Dating Tips for Guys and Dating Tips for Girls.

Using the “Option Limitation” to Maximize you’re Dating Success

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Using the “Option Limitation” to Maximize you’re Dating Success

When you are trying to attract women, make sure that you understand what she wants, because most men think that it is all about their look and the content of their wallet. If you happen to ask the girl that you like what she wants, your chances of seducing her will be really small. Furthermore, every woman in the world wants to have a more confident man by her side, so you have to become one. For that reason you will have to learn how to be more attractive and confident, but without becoming arrogant or desperate.

The main thing that you have to do is to make sure that you learn all the psychological tactics and rules, because they are the essential part of the whole seduction game. Furthermore, you will be able to plan the whole seduction game and turn the odds in your favor. One of the best psychological techniques that you will be able to use for that purpose is called option limitation and I can assure you that when you are using it, you will increase the chances of getting any girl that you like by more than 50 percent.

The basics of that procedure is that  you present the girl that you like with more than 1 option, which will cause her to choose the option that is suitable for you. For example if you present the girl with only one option, she is likely to choose something that is quite opposite and you will not be happy at all, but if you present her with 2-3 choices, she is more likely to choose one. Those are the main principals of the human nature and I can assure you that they will work for any girl without exception. It is very important to carefully choose the phrases that you will be using, because if you do not, you will decrease your chances of seducing the girl.

I would like to point out one example of how you will be able to use the “Option Limitation”. Most of the men say “Can I get your number?” which is the perfect way to finish a conversation with a girl. However the option limitation will work, when you say “I would like to get your number and I can call you to have dinner or a coffee tomorrow”. The first example will present the girl with only one option and in most cases, she will reject it. However using the second example you will present her with a choice between good and better, which in most of the cases will allow you to get both the number and set the next date. Make sure that you will use the “Option Limitation” in every possible situation, because it will have an effect for sure. Furthermore, make sure that you will use “or” to separate the choices that you are presenting the girl with, because that way she will subconsciously recognize that you are giving her the freedom to choose.

If you are willing to learn all the tricks that women use, make sure to read GuyGetsGirl, because it is probably the best guide available on the market. Furthermore, with that guide you will learn what some of the best techniques are that you can use to attract and seduce women, without these there is only your looks and financial status. I can assure you that all the techniques that are mentioned in that guide work and you will have a lot better dating experience for sure.

Christian Online Dating Has Come a Long Way

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It used to be that for a man and a woman to go on a date, the man has to first meet and ask the woman in person for a possible date.  And before that happens, some kind of initial acquaintance meeting has already happened between the two.  It’s somewhat different now.  Christian online dating has come a long way from the way it was before without the Internet.

Of course, there was already a telephone also back then and it has helped for two persons to get to know each other the long distance way.  But it had the disadvantage of getting-to-know-each-other only through hearing, through sound, on the phone.  They can only hear each other’s voices and that’s it.  It was limited.  It’s totally different now with Christian online dating the way it is being done today in cyberspace.  Christian café locations and other Christian dating sites on the Internet have superseded many of the traditional dating methods.

Dating During a Bygone Era

It used to be: a man and a woman would personally see each other, go on a date, spend time together, and get to know each other one-on-one – in person.  It helped the couple get to know each other better.  With the coming of the telephone, it became easier to just call and make an appointment – a date – before proceeding on the appointed time.

It used to be that a man would travel long distances, across rivers, across mountain, travel half the globe, just to be able to propose to a woman.  The Internet has really changed a lot of the way we do things.  But now, this can be done through Christian online dating right in one’s own home.

The New Era

With the coming of the Internet, and with the advancements that has come along with it, it is now possible to not only chat (typing text messages on the keyboard) and voice chat (using the microphone) but now, it has also become possible to even see the other person you are talking to on the other side of the globe – real time (through a webcam).  It’s been a great plus for Christian online dating.  Now they can see each other and somehow “see” and “feel” for each other.

It is now possible for single Christians to be able to get to know more singles from other parts of the globe without having to travel long distances and spend a lot of money.  Time, money, effort – lots of it are spent back then.  But now, with just a few clicks of a button on your keyboard, in the comfort of one’s home, a singles can go Christian online dating and get to know more fellow Christians around the world.  This is a great advancement.