Secrets To Attracting Hot, Younger Women Part I

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Secrets To Attracting Hot, Younger Women Part I

“Is he really interested me, or he’s just playing a game…the same way he does to other women?”

This is the line of thought that should run through a girl’s mind each time you’re flirting with her. It raises her level of desire to keep pushing things to the next level.

When she’s dealing a guy who sparks those kinds of thoughts in her mind, she’ll feel challenged to “perform” well, act in the sexiest way possible, just to get the complete approval she think she deserves.

The key, though, is to NEVER give 100% approval and confirmation that you have “feelings” for her. I’ll explain:

When a girl is interested in you, she’ll exhaust all means in order to discover if you feel the same way for her. This is because she feels that getting a guy to like her so bad is some sort of “success”.

You can actually drive women crazy, by never showing that you like them. This way, she’ll be challenged to keep working and working to gain your affection and attention.

This is the main reason why you should NEVER confess to a woman how badly you are attracted her, or admit how desperate you are to be her boyfriend (in fact, don’t be desperate at all). Stop cheesy lines and avoid insinuating that you two are “perfect” for each other.

I know that those things above sound romantic to guys, but in truth, hot women are usually turned off with them. I suggest  that you stop watching mushy Hollywood films and get back to the real world.

In movies, a geek introverted guy can attract the most popular hot girl in school…all because of him making a sudden romantic admission of his feelings. But it only happens in movies (rarely in real life).

In the real world, making a grand confession and admission of your “feelings” during the flirting/early-dating stage will be seen by the girl as a weakness in your personality.

Ninety percent of the time, admitting your feelings won’t urge the hot girl to tell you that she loves you too. In fact, she might get turned off! Chances are, she will begin to see you as a typical guy who can’t control his feelings and is desperately in love with her. For some reason, there’s no more challenge attached to you anymore, because she feels she’s already “won”.

Continued Tomorrow…

Tiger Woods Scandal Creates Caution for Married Date Seekers

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Tiger Woods Scandal Creates Caution for Married Date Seekers

Married people seeking new dating experiences through online dating sites have declined quite a bit since the Tiger Woods scandal broke shortly after Thanksgiving. According to an online dating site called BeNaughty.com, cheating men decreased their use of the site by almost 48% within the past month. Cheating woman also reduced their use of online dating sites almost 20%.

This is the first time that the site has seen such a sharp reduction in married people seeking out extra dates. This might be the one good thing to come of the scandal that could very well end Tiger Wood’s marriage and delay his golf career. Expectations are for the numbers to return once the attention has gone away for the story in the popular media outlets.

Three Great Sites for Over 40 Online Dating

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Three Great Sites for Over 40 Online Dating

When you’re past the age that you desire spending your nights looking for love in the local bars, going online can be a refreshing way to find quality dates safely. The workplace can be complicated while many of your associates are already taken. The stigma of online dating has ended with more and more people finding love and meeting others through technology. With many different dating sites available, we have picked three that offer mature dating opportunities for you.

Match.com

Match.com is one of the biggest and more popular sites online. Profiles can include up to 26 photos on the site which is nice with important questions being answered by many members prior to you finding their details. Twenty thousand new profiles a day makes your choices very good as you can be quite selective. There are fees to be a full member but the costs are refundable with a 6 month guarantee. Take a look today.

BabyBoomerDates.com

BabyBoomerDates.com is a member of a large online dating network which provides you will access to many different niches. Aimed at singles over 45, BabyBoomerDates.com is a great place to create a free profile and browse other members. There is a paid membership option which allows you to directly email others and make a connection.

Over40AndSingle.com

If you are looking for a completely free option, Over40AndSingle.com is the site for you. You can create a free profile, post photos, browse, search, email, and instant message other members without paying a fee. The site also has a vast number of articles for you to read that range from dating to sex and from finance to self-improvement. Take a look if you are over 40 and single.

Patti Stanger of The Millionaire Matchmaker

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Patti Stanger of The Millionaire Matchmaker

According to the Examiner.com, Patti Stanger was recently at a speed dating event in Los Angeles and provided some helpful tips for those in attendance about meeting singles online and online dating. Stanger is the host of the popular network television program The Millionaire Matchmaker in addition to being the author of ‘Become your own matchmaker” and a celebrity host on XM Radio.

Her tips for the speed daters after listening in on some of the conversations included “Don’t tell your life story, Get to the point.” and “Let the men do the work.” She also provided tips to the Examiner.com team prior to the speed dating event. These tips included “Never go past two drinks on a date.” and “Don’t talk about the ex.”. No one wants to know about your last relationship unless they ask and then they still probably don’t want to know too much.

Finally there was a list of people to avoid that she shared which ranged from “Toxic People” and “Alcoholics” to “Addicts” and the “Fixers”. Your interruption is required on some of her personality descriptions. I think we will get more good advice from Stanger in the coming weeks as her book goes to paperback at the end of the month.

Steps to Online Dating Success

Steps to Online Dating Success

Online Dating remains one of the most popular activities online today. Many couples meet and eventually get married through contact they made online. And the risks are minimal if you avoid giving away too much information before you are sure the person you are chatting with is safe and has the right intentions.

Realize that the right person will most likely not be the first person you find online and you might need to get to know many people before you find someone you are truly comfortable with and want to date. Here are the steps to successful online dating.

  1. Decide ahead of time what kind of relationship you are looking for. If you are looking for a long term relationship, you will want to register with certain dating sites. Maybe a niche dating site fits your personality. Possibly you just want to chat and have fun, then social networks will work best for you.
  2. Write a good online profile. Be honest, original, and interesting. Add a photo to your profile that is current, has good lightening, and doesn’t include other people.
  3. Share what is important to you including hobbies, interests, and what you except in a relationship. A sense of humor can be helpful along with creativity. You want to stand out among the many profiles registered.
  4. Begin to browse and search the profiles online. Search for qualities that are necessary in someone you date and save the best ones that you find. Work on your first emails before you send them but also be spontaneous at times. After your first contact, instant message those that are online at the same time as you are. Seem interested but not desperate.
  5. Winks and virtual kisses, etc. are often good if you are looking for casual encounters but should be reconsidered if you are looking for something a bit more serious.
  6. After a long series of online contact, if you feel comfortable and trust the person you have found, pass along some personal information like an email address or a phone number. Don’t give out the information too fast as you could find yourself in an odd situation with someone more interested in direct contact than you desire.
  7. If the initial contact outside the online website goes well, consider a meeting in a public area. Drive yourself and think of doing some background checks on the person prior to meeting. There are paid and free services that provide information about a person that you will want to know prior to getting more serious.

Hopefully these tips have been helpful in your online dating engagements. Take your time and have fun. Online dating can be a great addition to your dating pursuits.