A Valentine’s Gift for your Man, Whatever the Stage of the Relationship

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As Valentine’s Day approaches most couples start to think of the card and present they’ll get to show each other that they care. If you’ve been in a relationship for a long time then you may have developed some sort of established routine, or thought up a new surprise to celebrate the day.

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When relationships are new and you have only been together a matter of weeks it’s not always easy to know what your new boyfriend might like as a Valentine’s gift. In the beginning a small gift is more appropriate, such as a CD of a singer that you know he likes, or perhaps a book or DVD.  If you want to get something a bit more personal, and you know his size, you might want to get him a shirt or some other unique menswear item, perhaps from a Hugo Boss or Barbour outlet.

Shopping for the man in your life is never easy, but most women get more adept at it as time passes. When you get to know each other better, perhaps when your relationship has passed the three months mark and you begin to think of yourselves as a couple.

When you have been seeing each other for a few months you are still getting to know each other, if you want the relationship to continue you might want to find him a Valentine’s gift that will impress. Even though you don’t know everything about each other, you’ll know whether your guy has a particular interest or whether he is into the latest gadgets. If you know he’s been coveting a particular boy toy, a particular radio controlled car for instance, then why not make his day with that present.

Getting Serious

If Valentines Day comes around when you have been together for six months or more then other people will see you as a couple and the relationship is probably on a more serious footing.

If the weather is still very cold, as it often is in February, you might want to get him that sweater, part of a unique menswear range that would bring out the blue in his eyes. If you want to give him a Valentine’s gift of a shared experience, then why not book a table at your favourite restaurant. When you’ve eaten you can produce cinema tickets for the film you’ve both been meaning to see, surprise him why don’t you?

Long Term Partners

Once you’ve been together for a year or two, you may be looking at the long haul; there are plenty of personalised gifts available at stores like a Versace or Barbour outlet. By now, if you’re like most young couples you’ve probably been on holiday together and have lots of things to talk and laugh about.

One of the things to emerge in recent years has been the gift of an experience, or better still a shared experience. It’s possible to book experience weekends and although these are often sought after by businesses for a corporate team building exercise a growing number of individuals and couples enjoy the experience.

Shared experiences are the things that help to build and cement a relationship and Valentine’s Day is one of the best times for doing this.

This article was written by Crispin Jones on behalf of Anna Davies the renowned Barbour outlet who stock a great range of unique menswear ideal for gifts.

The Top 5 Ways to Kill Someone’s Interest in You

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I remember a time when this guy was interested in me. He was doing everything he could to make sure I noticed that he was in to me, and I was doing everything I could to make sure he didn’t know I was interested in him too. Of course soon he gave up on me and found someone else. That’s a mistake I never made again!

If you are single and looking then you probably don’t want to ruin your chances with someone who is interested in you – especially if you are interested in them back. By avoiding doing all the wrong things that drive them away, you will naturally do all the right things that keep them attracted to you, so here are the top 5 ways to kill someone’s interest in you.

1. Pretending You Are Not Interested in Them

Many people are advised to play this game with someone that is interested in them. It’s supposed to be a way to make them even more interested in you – kind of like a cat and mouse situation where they have to chase you. For the most part it doesn’t work.

Normally the person doing the ‘chasing’ becomes unsure of whether or not the ‘chasee’ is really interested in them. Soon the fear of rejection causes them to lose interest in the chase and move onto someone else. And even if they are not scared of you rejecting them, they will probably just grow tired of your coy attitude with them and give up.

2. Trying to Make Them Jealous

This is another game that many people are advised to play. It’s supposed to make the person attracted to you grow even more attracted to you due to jealousy. It’s a dangerous game, and instead of winning at the game, most of the time your admirer will quickly grow angry that you chose someone else instead of them. This will cause them to move on to someone who actually shows interest in them, and them only.

3. Showing Your Mean Side

If your admirer is attracted to you it’s probably because of one or more admirable traits. But nothing can overshadow those traits like a fit of rage and anger can.

Not many people will be attracted to you because you are mean or cold in nature. Even a glimpse of that side of you may be enough to turn someone off, so remember to always show your best side out in public – and try to always live your best side. You will be happier and you will keep your admirers around!

4. Complaining

A person can only listen to so much complaining from someone before they completely cut that person off from their ‘I’m attracted to this person’ list. Complaining makes you look crabby, unreasonable, and difficult to deal with. Who would want to get into a relationship with someone like that?

To thwart complaining start taking action! Don’t waste time complaining but instead fix the issues that would cause you to complain in the first place. It’s much more admirable. Plus you will gain attraction by your admirer if you are a go-doer who gets things done.

5. Criticizing Them The Wrong Way

Chances are the person interested in you is involved in your life some way. If you are interacting on a conversational level then you want to make sure that you don’t bruise their ego in some way or make them feel as though you believe you are superior to them.

If you point the finger at someone and tell them they are doing something wrong in a negative way then you will instantly lose their respect and gain their annoyance. You may think that you are being helpful when you tell them how to do something, but you may actually cause them to think that you are telling them that they are wrong and you are right. Anyone attracted to you will be turned off immediately!

Of course there are times that they will be doing something wrong and you may need to direct them in a different direction. Instead of pointing the finger or blaming them in a direct way, use the indirect method with constructive criticism. This means giving them positive feedback followed by constructive criticism.

For instance, if you are critiquing an office memo they wrote then you may want say something like ‘You really know what you are doing when it comes to getting your point across!’ followed by constructive criticism such as ‘maybe you can point out even more great things about not eating other people’s lunches.’ This sounds a lot better than saying ‘You need to add more detail to that list!’

While these are the top 5 ways to kill someone’s interest in you, there are many ways to lose the interest of an admirer. Remember that keeping their interest boils down to being the real you, letting them see you in a positive light, and making them feel as though you value them. Remember those tips and your admirers will always admirer you.

About The Author:

Bellaisa writes for the Relationship Circle, a blog with relationship advice on everything from common relationship issues to how to find love.

Top Date Ideas for Foodies

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Looking for something to impress that amazing someone who loves a good meal? Finding the perfect date for foodies requires a little extra planning and thinking to make it the perfect night out. A lifetime of memories start with that perfect date that impresses that special someone with their unique interests.

Take a Cooking Class

Taking a cooking class as a couple is not only a great date idea; it will actually result in long-lasting memories that carry forward for years to come. A cooking class might only last for one day or it might have classes for a few days. Either way, working as a team to create that delicious gourmet meal will result in food related enjoyment that is longer than simply eating in a restaurant.

Classic Picnic

Packing a picnic lunch is a sweet, fun and romantic date idea. For a new twist, take time browsing in a local organic farmer’s market or organic store to buy fresh produce like strawberries or any other favourite fruit that is then added to the picnic basket. It will not only result in a fun afternoon spent enjoying conversation under the open sky; it is a healthy alternative to many restaurants.

Cook at Home

Spend the evening cooking a meal at home with the freshest ingredients available from the local farmer’s market. A meal created at home is not only romantic, it is more economical and shows off those cooking skills for the ultimate impression made on a foodie who enjoys a great dinner.

Try Eating a Sample Platter

When taking a foodie to restaurants, opt for that sample platter instead of buying a full course meal. The sample platter will give a range of different tastes and is the perfect solution when trying something new like a restaurant from a different country. It makes the meal less of a risk while also giving an idea of what to order the next time.

Go to a Food Festival

Foodies can rejoice at the fun environment of a food festival while still getting a taste of great meals. The food festivals often come around annually and are a great way to celebrate food and try something new while staying close to home.

Planning a date around that foodie in your life is about more than a night at a local restaurant. It can mean cooking a meal together, taking cooking classes or even enjoying that great food festival coming up in the area. Regardless of the plan, foodie date ideas are a great way to impress and build new memories together.

Article provided by Parship UK, One of the top 10 UK dating site providing a serious dating alternative for British professionals.

7 Ways to Start a Conversation with the Cutie You’ve Been Eying

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Ok gals. There is probably a guy that you are thinking about right now. He’s probably super cute, and awesome, but you haven’t had the nerve to talk to him. It’s ok, we all get like that with cute guys! If you want to talk to the cute guy and you want to get to know him better, here are some tips to start a conversation with him.

  1. Ask him for directions. If you find that he is an expert when it comes to directions, ask him how to get somewhere. If you are very daring, call him when you get “lost”. It’s a great idea to strike up a conversation with him.
  2. Ask about the train/bus/school schedule. If you spot your cutie on a bus, don’t be afraid to ask him about the schedule. It is a great idea to start a conversation.
  3. Ask him what he likes to order. If you frequently see your cutie in a coffee shop, or a bakery, ask him what he likes to order. If he’s the cashier, this is a great way to strike up a great conversation. You might find that you have a lot of things in common.
  4. Ask about what he is reading. See what he is reading. It’s a good idea to comment on it if it is something that you would be interested in! You can have a great connection.
  5. Ask about the game. Ask him about the sports game that he is watching. Show him that you are interesting in sports. Guys love girls that are into sports.
  6. Send him a drink. If you see him at a bar, don’t be afraid to send him a drink. It will show that you are interested. And, if he’s not interested, he won’t take the drink. But don’t worry, there are plenty of other guys out there.

  7. Ask your guy about the technology he likes. Lot’s of guys love technology. If the guy that you are crushing on has some cool gadgets, ask him about them. He will love to talk about the latest gadgets that he has.

Good luck when it comes to talking to the cutie that you have been eying. These are some great ways to start a conversation. If the cutie doesn’t take notice, don’t fret. There are plenty of other guys out there. Don’t be afraid to give him some space, you don’t want to scare the guy!

 

About the Author
Tammi Jenkins is a writer for MyCollegesandCareers.com. My Colleges and Careers is a service that will help you find online schools that are best for you.

Meeting THE ONE on Holiday

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In the UK and beyond, there are ever increasing numbers of single and divorced people looking to begin a new relationship. However, it’s not always easy to meet similar-minded individuals these days. Dating websites are fine, of course, but they deter some men and women because there is something a little hit and miss about this method.

If you become a member of such a site, you can arrange meetings with potential partners of the future, of course, but that all-important first meeting can be extremely difficult. It can be awkward and stilted because of shyness and uncertainty, which means the lack of a natural start to a relationship can prevent it ever beginning in the first place.

The solution is simple but very difficult to actually arrange. The best way to meet people is to do so in a relaxed setting and amid a comfortable atmosphere, but this can be tricky to arrange. A singles night in a local pub always sounds like a good idea, but it contains a certain whiff of desperation for some people, and it often leads to disappointment.

There is an alternative these days, however, and it’s one which pretty much guarantees an opportunity to meet people when they’re at their most relaxed. A singles holiday to one of Europe’s hot-spots provides the ideal opportunity to get to know men and women when they’re away from the stresses of family and working lives.

One of the most popular holiday destinations in Europe is the island of Cyprus. Located in the eastern Mediterranean, it combines a wonderful climate, some stunning beaches and a whole host of inviting bars, restaurants and clubs. Each of these places gives ultra-relaxed holiday-makers a wonderful opportunity to get to know their fellow travellers in an atmosphere that lends itself perfectly to the possibilities of burgeoning romance.

The European tourist industry has suffered greatly in the wake of the economic downturn in recent years, but the rise in popularity of singles holidays is one of several reasons why those in the know are predicting an imminent improvement. In the next few years, who knows how many established couples will look back on their trip to Cyprus and reminisce about how they first met?

Although some people see a summer holiday as nothing more than an opportunity to soak up the sun and improve the tan, many others like to explore their destination in greater detail. The island of Cyprus is home to many fascinating towns and villages, so hiring a car is always a good idea, and it can be extremely inexpensive, too.

Perhaps the best places on the island in which to get to know other singles are the iconic beachside bars. They provide the perfect location to enjoy a cool drink and a relaxing chat, and all with the stunning backdrop of the beautiful Mediterranean Sea. And if the chemistry works well, there are so many pleasant restaurants to choose from. A delicious meal in a top quality eatery can help the conversation to flow naturally; it’s all so much more pleasant than a stuffy singles night in a British pub, and of course far more personal than an Internet dating site.

David Rice is based in the UK and met his current girlfiiend while holidaying in Europe. He knows that when it comes to car hire Cyprus is surprisingly affordable. With the many Cyprus car hire options currently available, he recommends checking prices on the Internet before tavelling.

How to Deal with Anxiety Naturally

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The current figure of people suffering from anxiety is very alarming these days. There are approximately 10 million people in United States alone who have anxiety disorders such as generalized anxiety disorder (GAD), panic disorder, social anxiety disorder, phobia, obsessive-compulsive disorder, post-traumatic stress disorder and separation anxiety disorder.

The most common anxiety disorder is the panic disorder. Panic disorder is the sudden feeling of extreme fear and nervousness for no apparent reason. Panic disorder is manifested by racing heartbeats, chest pains, excessive sweating, trembling, numbness or tingling in hands, arms, fingers and legs, breathing difficulties, dizziness, feeling of loss of control and inability to concentrate. Panic disorder may last for several minutes and reach its peak within 10 minutes however some of its symptoms may last for a longer time. Many people who experience their first panic attacks may believe that they are suffering from heart attack because of these symptoms.

This is the reason why it is suggested to consult your physician or doctor when you experience the mentioned symptoms to avoid complications of chronic anxiety.  Anxiety symptoms may start during childhood years and early adulthood and when taken for granted and no prevention is done can make it worse overtime.

Many anxiety patients may turn to medications immediately to treat their anxiety. However, this is not the recommended and safest way to treat anxiety for anti-anxiety drugs such as Benzodiazepines (Xanax, Klonopin, Valium, and Ativan) have side effects and the feeling of relief the patients can feel are just temporary. It is always best to take the natural remedies for any diseases first and then take prescription drugs as your last resort when the natural way seems to not work on you.

The following are some of the natural remedies and habits you can try to help you get rid your anxiety:

  • Voice out your problems or the things that make you worry. Talk to your family, to your friends, to someone you trust. Hiding your worries and fears just heighten what you feel and can also interrupt your sleeping patterns which can make you feel stress and then trigger anxiety attacks.
  • Get physical. Regular body and mind exercise can help in reducing stress levels. You can have long walks with your pet, play sports like badminton, some breathing exercises and you can learn meditation and yoga as well to help your mind relax and rest.
  • Drinking plain water at least 8 glasses per day or fruit juice for an alternative can also help. Eating nutritious food such as green leafy vegetables and fruits can give you nutrients that your brain and body need. However, nutrients from food you eat every day may not be enough. You can take vitamin supplements containing vitamins C and B-complex, magnesium and calcium which are good for your nervous system. Also, avoid eating foods that are high in fat, sugar or oil.
  • Aromatherapy can also help relieving and reducing anxiety. Lavender is the most common and effective essential oil that can provide you relaxation.

These may work on some people and may not on others. These are just few of the many ways you can follow or use to treat your anxiety. Do not lose hope, just ask for help, don’t keep it.

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