My friend John usually asks me for advice on dating girls. He is bouncing back from a divorce, and is currently in his 40’s. The problem is, he’s having a hard time getting back into the “pickup” game.

Dating and getting younger women does not depend on your age, or how wide the age difference you have with the girl. The principles of attraction works for any woman of any age. It’s just a matter adjusting your tactics a little bit if you want to date someone younger.

Most mature single guys are looking girls who are attractive, sexy, and YOUNGER. If you’re one of those men, here’s what you should always keep in mind: Women LIKE guys are who are considerably older than them.

The key is to let her get used to you touching her. Later when you’re together at the right place and the right time, she won’t object when you start holding her waist, or kiss her, and start the foreplay…all because you already conditioned her early on.

Instead of doing some cheesy admissions, be cool, calm, and act as if you don’t give care too much.

“Is he really interested me, or he’s just playing a game…the same way he does to other women?”

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With the mass appeal of online dating there have been numerous niche dating sites that focus on one type of single and hope to provide better matches than sites that provide more general profiles. Christian dating sites are one of these types of niches. Even within the Christian dating area there are many ways to break down the profiles even further between different Christian beliefs.

There are a number of different bloggers providing their perspective on rules that men should follow when involved in online dating. And with the competition among men to meet the more sparse female online daters, knowing the rules can be beneficial. These are the top 7 rules that we have found.

Some dating sites are now adding the feature of online speed dating to the mix of services they offer their members. In addition to the traditional profile creation and browsing, sites are offering a mix of video, instant message, and voice to allow members to meet one another online in a speed dating fashion.